Chinese Women Relationships Can Be Different

If you want to meet and date Chinese women do yourself a favor and do a little research first. It’s best to learn something about their culture and their traditions. It can’t hurt to learn some of their language too. All of this will help you insure that your relationship is successful.

This is particularly important if you are looking for marriage. It will go a long way to impress your prospective bride if you are somewhat knowledgeable about her country and language.

Also give serious thought to what you want in a relationship once you meet your dream lady. Most Chinese are quite proper and it’s not very feasible that you’ll find one who’ll agree to a casual affair. If that’s what you’re looking for you’ll probably have better luck finding some American/ Chinese woman who isn’t as traditional as someone who was born and raised in China.

There are several things that Chinese woman respond to. They like men who are well educated. Having a good education is a sign of status in China and most women will respond very favorably to this.

Another thing that you must have is good personal grooming and hygiene. The bad boy, scruffy look might work on some western women but it won’t work on Asian women. Think about it for a minute. When was the last time you saw a fat or unkempt Chinese man, or woman? I honestly don’t think I’ve ever seen either one. There is a reason for that.

Chinese culture is very grounded in tradition and appearances. In their culture you don’t want to do anything that can dishonor the family, if you run around looking like a slob it is showing a lack of respect to your family. If you have what could diplomatically be called a ‘casual’ style you may need to rethink that if you are serious about meeting a Chinese woman to date.

Being the type of man who isn’t afraid to ask for what he wants is another attribute that a Chinese woman will respond well to. Be strong, confidant and assertive but make sure that you never cross over to being loud, brash and obnoxious. Showing a lot of emotion in public is considered poor manners so be strong, but don’t be pushy.

Being financially secure is another important factor. When a Chinese woman is ready to marry she has been raised to find a man that can support her. It’s a very traditional set up. She will care for the home, children and her man and he will support her and treat her with love and respect. Not really very different from what Americans have done for decades, though it’s changed recently.

Don’t be surprised or offended if your would be bride asks pointed questions about your financial situation, this is jut the way she was brought up to think about her future. It doesn’t make her greedy or cold. This is one of many cultural misunderstandings that can be avoided if you take the time to learn a little about the culture and traditions before you start dating Chinese women