How To Recover When A Guy Doesnt Love You Back
The first step in recovering from a situation such as this is deciding you WANT to move on. Thats right; you have to WANT to get over your feelings before anything will ever help you. If youve decided to wallow in your own personal pity party, nothing is ever going to make you happy again. Thats because youve made the decision to be miserable for the rest of your life because this ONE MAN did not love you back. Please think about that for a minute. For just 60 seconds, consider what youve decided to do and ask yourself how much sense that actually makes.
Now, if youre thinking more clearly and have decided to push forward in your recovery, your next step is to just accept that this isnt going to happen. Chances are youve already tried all of your feminine wiles on the object of your affection without any results. If getting your body in great shape, something new with your hair, new makeup techniques, and making sure he sees your new and improved body in the hot new bikini you bought all went unnoticed, its time to move on. The really awful part is when you run into him with a date that is not nearly as pretty as you, yet he seems to be totally enamored of her. Dont wonder whats wrong with you. Just accept that he has tastes in women that you do not match, for whatever reason.
The next thing to do is FEEL your grief and anger over things not working out with this man. Allow yourself to act in whatever manner will help you get it out of your system. If this means that you cry, scream, throw or break things, so be it. Just make sure youre only throwing and breaking things that belong to you and no one else. This is much like a death to you even though it was, most likely, never even alive to this man. However, you are entitled to a grieving process and thats a huge part of healing.
Once youve gone through the above steps, dont avoid people. Your friends will want to be there for you now and help you in whatever way they can. Let them do this. It will make all of you feel much better. Go out with them and, when youre ready, let them introduce you to guys they just know will be perfect for you. Who knows? One of them just may REALLY BE your perfect guy!