Get Back Together With Your Ex Even If She Dumped You

Just about everyone would agree that going through a break up is never easy. If the woman in your life recently dumped you, don’t worry, there are still things you can do to get back together with your ex. What follows is some straight talk, so if you are easily offended or aren’t willing to do whatever it takes, then you may not be ready for this information.

Women can be very finicky. In fact, some estimates show that as many as 75% of all break ups are initiated by the female in the relationship. However, this isn’t all bad news as they will often be open to the idea of making up. Keep in mind that women tend to express their emotions differently than men. This means they may break up with you in the heat of the moment, only to regret it later. But, once they realize their mistake, they find it difficult to admit they could have been wrong and probably won’t ask you to come back; at least not right away.

So, the first thing you need to do is nothing. That’s right, break off all contact with your ex. You need to give them some time to come to terms with what has happened, time for them to decide whether or not they should have broke up with you. The other benefit of not contacting your ex is it will give you some time to think about what went wrong. To be clear, “no contact” means no telephone calls, no emails, no text messages and no “accidentally” bumping into them in various places.

During this time apart, you need to get to the bottom of what really went wrong in your relationship. Before you can get back together with your ex, you need to fix the problems that caused the two of you to split up. This can be tricky sometimes. While it may be easy to spot some problems quickly, these are usually not the real problems, but rather the symptoms of deeper issues. Your job is to dig deep.

Once you discover what the real problems are, you need to come up with some ways to fix them. For example, if you find that you were too controlling, then you have to find a way to get over it and be willing to loosen the grip you had on your ex. Whatever you find, you have to be willing to fix it before you can move on to the next step.

Now that you have done these things, you can get in touch with your ex again. Set up a time and place to meet so you can talk about the things you have been thinking about. Remember, this is not a date, but just a meeting to discuss things. Be sure to remain calm, respectful and honest while talking to your ex. Doing all of these things are a good start to being on the right track to get back together with your ex.