Should I Join A Senior Dating Group

Yes! That was a short answer wasn’t it. If you are looking to find love, you should consider joining a senior dating group. Why? Well for one thing, other people who are also looking for love will have joined and your next Mr or Ms Right may just be around the corner.

It is easier to find a new partner when you look for one in the right place. Dating groups may not be for everyone but they are a great way to meet new people. You may not find your ideal match but you should have plenty of fun trying. Widening your social circle is always a good thing. Not only could you meet your next partner, but you can also try new activities with your newly found friends and that is what helps keep us young and fresh.

So what do you need to consider when joining a dating group. The first thing to suggest is that you pick one aimed at your particular age group. If you want to meet someone over 50 then there are clubs that cater for that specific market.

The second issue you need to consider is how you complete your application form for this new group. You will probably be asked for a photograph. Please provide a recent one and one that shows you in a flattering pose. If you don’t have a suitable one, go get some taken. When meeting people in a social situation you can rely on your charm and personality to attract someone new. Often with dating groups, the first impression will be that given by your photograph and you want to show yourself off in the best possible light.

The next issue is your profile. You will be asked to describe yourself including perhaps your strengths and weaknesses. Be careful with this one. I am not telling you to lie but now is not a good time to tell everyone that you have a very bad temper or that you are moody. Remember that you are selling yourself to potential partners so use positive words to describe your personality. People often find this difficult to do so try enlisting some of your friends to help. Pick someone who knows you very well and ask them to describe you. Hopefully you will be pleasantly surprised!

Once you have joined, you should shortly be on the way to your first date. Make life easy for yourself and suggest you meet initially for coffee. There is nothing worse than being stuck at dinner with someone you just cannot make conversation with. At least with coffee, you can make your excuses and run if he or she isn’t what you expected. Going to a play or the cinema is great but not on the first couple of dates. You need to get to know each other and you cannot do that if you aren’t able to have a chat.

Be wary of first impressions and snap judgments and give yourself time to get to know someone before deciding they are not the right match for you. But if it doesn’t work out, don’t hesitate to head back to the senior dating group for more.